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MARGARET
BATEMAN AND ALFRED OXENBOLD DAVIS

By Susan Woodland Howard
Margaret Bateman was a bright-eyed,
black-haired girl affectionately called “Maggie” all of her life. Her
children and grandchildren, including my own mother, remembered her for
her flashing black eyes. She was the youngest child of Mary Street
Bateman and Thomas Bateman.
Margaret’s first-born child was my
grandmother, Eva Davis Penrose. I have memories of Grandma bragging to
me that her mother was a BATEMAN. I was a young child at the time and
didn’t know why this was special—I later assumed it was because Margaret
was born at Winter Quarters in Iowa after the Mormons fled Nauvoo.
Margaret was born 30 June 1849 at
Little Pigeon, Pottawattamie, Iowa. Her parents joined the Mormon
Church in the late 1830’s in Manchester, England, and were among the
first English converts to travel to America to help settle Nauvoo,
Illinois. They had left Nauvoo and were preparing to travel west to
join the Latter-day Saints in Utah. Margaret was barely a year old when
her parents and seven older brothers and sisters left Kanesville, Iowa
with the James Pace Company on 11 June 1850.
After arriving in the Salt Lake Valley
15 Sept 1850, Maggie’s family eventually settled in what is now West
Jordan. She had been too young to remember the sight of buffalo and
Indians on the Overland Trail, but she did remember well the local tribe
that had a part to play in her early life in Utah. The following is
Margaret’s story as told by members of her family.
Challenges of Pioneer Life
The Indians were very hostile to many settlers
when they first began building homes in the Valley, but for some reason
they were kind and friendly towards the Bateman family. They often came
to Maggie’s home. Mary Bateman warned her children never to turn them
away without some food or clothing, but never to let them in the house.
Maggie was always very fond of Indians and when anyone asked her why,
she remarked that she felt they had saved the lives of family members
several times.
One of the stories Maggie told was
about going to the neighbors to get a little start of fire with her
sister. Once there they were warned that the Indians were coming for
revenge because one of the braves had been killed. Maggie and her
sister Martha, then 10 and 12 years old, hurried back home but found
themselves alone in the log house. They heard the sound of the howling
Indians as they approached. Martha grabbed the ax and Maggie dived into
bed and pulled the covers over her head. Their mother and brothers in
the fields heard the ruckus and came running to scare the Indians away.
Margaret was only three when her father
disappeared at sea while returning from a trip to England. Her mother,
Mary Street Bateman, raised her family alone. Her older children helped
her, but little Maggie must have learned at an early age to be
self-reliant.
The winter of 1855-6 there was very
little food in the valley because of drought and the plagues of crickets
that had come to devour the crops. That winter was the harshest one the
settlers had experienced since settling in the Salt Lake Valley in 1847.
They had to break the ice in the river so the cattle could get water and
many of them fell in. Maggie and the rest of the children were sent out
to dig sego lilies down in the slough in the early spring. Sego lilies
were reeds like flags or onions. They pulled them up and took bulbs
home and cooked them for food. (Sego lily, Calochortus nuttallii,
is now the state flower of Utah.) The local Native Americans regarded
the bulb-like roots as a great delicacy and taught the pioneers how to
use them for food. Presently they serve mainly as gopher food.
At the time Maggie began school, all the pupils met in the same room for
instruction. At age 4 or 5, Maggie was the youngest child, while other
of the students were in their 20’s and even 30’s.
For fun the children played with
balls made out of bladders. They also loved candy pulls. One night
they had a candy fight and when it was over they had to carry seven
buckets of water to wash all the candy out of Maggie’s black hair.
Maggie loved to tell about her first
pair of red shoes. Her mother traded wheat for them. It rained on the
first Sunday she wore them so she begged her brothers to carry her both
to and from church so the new shoes wouldn’t get wet. She wore them
till the soles fell off. It took another sack of wheat to replace them.
Maggie’s family neighbors and friends
loved her for her wonderful personality, keen wit, and happy
disposition; and wherever she went she was always called “the life of
the party.”
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Johnson’s Army
Maggie and her mother were in Brigham
City when word came that Johnson’s Army was on the way to Utah to take
over the territorial government—a frightening prospect for the Mormons
who had endured difficult times in Missouri and Nauvoo. In 1858 Brigham
Young ordered all the women and children to move south to escape while
the men were to remain behind to burn the farms and homes should the
Army actually try to enter Salt Lake Valley. Maggie, a bare-footed
eight year old, and her mother walked from the City to Payson, more than
110 miles to the south.
In 1862 Mary Bateman and her children
were able to obtain 160 acres of land in West Jordan where they built a
log cabin. A few years later two of her sons built a large beautiful
house where Mary lived the rest of her life.
Maggie attended church meetings in a
stone building in West Jordan. She also participated in other
activities there, mainly dramatics and music. In 1960 the building was
still standing. The DUP purchased it for an amusement and relic hall.
Mischief
At age 18 Maggie was a high-spirited
fun-loving girl—a regular newspaper because she loved to keep up on all
the gossip in West Jordan. Her favorite activity was to instigate
shivarees for newly married couples and crash their wedding receptions.
She reportedly even got the Bishop’s wives (Bishop Gordon) to join her
on these escapades.
“When a couple was “shivareed” the
serenaders carried tin cans, pans, bells and horns, in fact anything by
which they could produce a noise. Maggie and friends met after dark at
some designated place, then quietly surround the house where the
reception was being held, and at a signal from the leader they broke
into a deafening clamor. This would continue until they were invited
into the house and treated to the delicacies of the wedding supper.
They often remained the entire evening playing jokes and amusing the
guests with an impromptu program.
“Despite all this mischief she was
very well liked and had a truly winning way about her. Her roguish
smile and hearty laugh were so contagious no one could resist her.
Although she would walk a mile in winter to get friends to join her in a
shivaree, she would walk twice that distance to help a friend in
distress.”
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Maggie and Alfred
Alfred Oxenbould Davis was the fifth of
seven children (fourth boy) born 20 August 1847 in Aston or Handsford,
England to John Catley Davis and Phoebe Oxenbould. John and Phoebe
joined the church in 1850, immigrated to the US and traveled to Utah in
1859. Alfred’s mother and two of his siblings died of cholera shortly
after arriving in Florence, Nebraska in 1854, when he was not quite
seven years old. His father married Caroline Young Harris in 1860.
Maggie and Alfred married 2 October
1872 when she was 23 and he was 25. The photograph we have of him shows
that he was a handsome man with black eyes and a black moustache with
just a bit of curl. Probate Judge Elias Smith performed the ceremony at
the home of Elizabeth, Margaret’s sister (Mrs. Philip Margetts.)
Alfred and his brother were the first
telegraph operators in Alta, Utah, employees of Union Pacific Railway.
When the telegraph first came to Utah, Brigham Young called several
young men to be trained as operators. Perhaps Alfred had been one of
these.
Alfred left he house before dawn to go
to work and didn’t return until after dark. He told the story that one
time two bums came into the office and held him up, broke into a locked
desk, and threatened to heat the poker and run it down his throat. Some
customers approached just in time to frighten the men away.
The couple’s first child, Eva Catherine Davis, was born 9 July 1873 in
Alta. At first her parents believed she was the first child born in
what was then a mining town and they planned on naming her Alta. Before
that happened, they discovered Eva was actually the second child born
there. A later fire destroyed Eva’s birth records.
Margaret and Alfred had eight children,
three boys and five girls, all of whom were born in Utah. They were
Eva Catherine Davis, 9
July 1873, Alta
Alfred Fredrick Davis, 22
November 1874, West Jordan
Victoria Davis, 1876,
Corrine (Victoria died around nine months of age.)
Thomas Catley Davis, 14
May 1879, Corrine.
Mary Maude Davis, 24
September 1881, Logan
Lettie Pearl Davis, 1
July 1884, West Jordan/Midvale
Vilate Davis, 29 October
1888, Midvale
Raymond Davis, 7 October
1892, Midvale.
While Alfred was stationed at Battle Mountain, Nevada, his letters to
Maggie described what a cold, remote, lonely place it was, and how
lonely and miserable he was so far from his wife. (Dorothy Woodland,
his granddaughter, was able to read some of them years later. She said
she cried at how miserable he was.)
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Vilate’s Memories
Vilate,
Maggie’s youngest daughter, came into the world with the help of
Maggie’s midwife sister-in-law Miranda, wife of Samuel Bateman. Maggie
told Vilate that no matter how hard things were, they had to share
whatever they did have with any Indians who came to the door. The
family never had any trouble with them. At that time the Indians had
free transportation on flat cars and so could go anywhere they wanted.
Vilate remembered many of them with papooses strapped on their backs.
One of her
early memories is that the house was so crowded that four of the younger
children slept in a long bed on the kitchen floor. One night when
Vilate was about five (about 1893) a man stole into the house after
everyone was asleep except Vilate. He took some bread from the breadbox
and then walked over to a shelf close to the little girl. He stepped
over her head to reach for it, but the shelf was full of knick-knacks
and shells that he knocked down onto a trunk, thus awaking the whole
house. He ran. Vilate had been too frightened to make a sound during
this whole time.
Alfred had
to quit his job with Union Pacific after he developed arthritis so
severe that he couldn’t wear shoes most of the time. A friend in
Montana offered him a job until his feet got better—a saloon in Butte
where Alfred could do odd jobs wearing slippers on his feet. He earned
enough to send some money home to his family.
One day
Alfred awoke not feeling well and stayed home from work. When he didn’t
show up, his friend stopped by and found his lifeless body in his room.
His friends in Butte dressed him beautifully and sent his body home to
West Jordan with a red carnation clasped in his hand. Despite their
thoughtfulness, the family redressed him in his temple clothing for
burial. He died 15 Feb 1896 in Dillon, Beaverhead, Montana. His
youngest child, Ray, was only four years old.
Just before
Alfred died, Maggie was stricken with typhoid fever, which resulted in
the loss of most of her hair. She had lain in bed with a high fever for
weeks, and although she still wasn’t well, she was able to attend her
husband’s funeral. Maggie was a widow at age 46.
Mary
Street Bateman had died five years earlier in 1891. Maggie wasn’t
alone, though—she had brothers and sisters to help her through these bad
times. Her brother William came to help her with the family for a
time. He thought he might help out by offering to take Maude to live
with him, but Maggie cried and cried. Maggie said all she had were her
children. Maude stayed with her mother.
Maggie worked
hard to take care of her family, undoubtedly with much help from the
older children. She ran a community grocery store in the front of her
home where she sold bread, cakes and staples. The family lived in rooms
on the side and back.
Eventually they had to sell the store. The family moved into a large
home on State Street in Murray that they turned into a boarding house.
There was a restaurant below on the first floor. The girls did the
cleaning and bed making before they went to school and later helped
prepare meals for the boarders. They had to get up early and clean 15
rooms, pitchers, wash bowls, and empty the slop jars, all before going
to school.
Later in the
afternoon they helped prepare the meals for the boarders. There wasn’t
a lot of meat for the family because the boarders were served first, but
Vilate remembers that they got plenty of good-flavored gravy.
Maggie didn’t
often get angry, but when she did, she was a “holy terror.” Generally
she had no special trouble with the guests until one fellow asked for a
room, and then also asked for one of the girls. Three times Maggie told
him to get out. When he wouldn’t leave, she took him by the seat of the
pants and his collar and threw him down the stairs.
Maggie and
the older girls also took in sewing and were known for their beautiful
work. They had two “machines.” Most of their customers came from
across the alley and were girls from “the red light district.” Vilate
delivered the finished dresses and the “girls” always paid what she
asked and gave her an extra quarter for a tip that she turned over to
her mother. Sometimes the dresses were sent back four or five times to
be mended, as at times they had been torn to pieces.
Maggie also remade men’s pants into little boys’ pants, charging 35¢ per
pair.
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Fun-loving Cousins
In spite of the hardships and hard work, the Davis family had fun
together. Maggie—the good sport—was always joking. She continued to
perform and provide entertainment in the local ward. As the children
grew, they joined in: they all had beautiful voices, dramatic talent,
as well as a love for comedy. Their reputation for fun-- “if you want
to have fun, invite the Davis’s”--got them invited to many private
gatherings as well.
One of the Bateman cousins, Juliaetta Bateman Jensen wrote: “Our city
cousins loved to visit us in the country and we loved to have them;
George, Minnie and Ben and handsome cousin Pouncefort of the Margetts
family. They, too, had great talent. It seemed to me they lived in
such a gay, happy theatrical world. Father and Mother loved to have
them come.
“Also
talented in acting were Aunt Maggie Davis and her children Fred, Eva,
Maud and the others. When they came to visit us, the farm took on a new
life. We rode horses, played ball, and went in swimming in the canal.”
Juliaetta’s father, Samuel also permitted the children to play baseball
with their Davis and Bateman cousins after Sunday School. “Father was
no tyrant.”
One of
her grandchildren shared her memories of Grandma Davis: “Grandma lived
in a small frame house in Murray, and I remember going on the streetcar
with Mother to visit her, I still remember her flashing black eyes, and
all the children avoided doing anything wrong so that we would not be
the recipients of one of her glances. We had such good times on her
front lawn in the summer, making home made ice cream, and having the
chance to lick the dasher on the hand turned freezer. We do not have ice
cream like that anymore. Grandma died when I was eight years old, I am
so glad that I knew her, even if it was for so short a time.”
Around
1902, when Vilate graduated from “high school” (eighth grade) Maggie
sold the rooming house and paid $50 for a little house that had to be
moved from the Murray Smelter to Elm and Center Streets (later Wasatch
Street) in Murray. The house had only two rooms and here Vilate lived
with her mother and her younger brother Ray.
Maggie died 3
March 1917 at age sixty-seven “just worn out.” Her funeral was held in
the Murray First Ward on March 6, services conducted by Bishop D. R.
Brinton. Her March 7 obituary stated that “there was a wealth of
beautiful floral offerings and the attendance was unusually large.”
Speakers included her nephew Daniel Bateman and principle speaker,
President Charles W. Penrose of the LDS church First Presidency,
father-in-law of Maggie’s daughter, Eva Davis Penrose.
“All paid
glowing tribute to the life and character of Mrs. Davis, a faithful
worker, especially in the Relief Society, and in addition Prest. Penrose
preached a doctrinal sermon on the resurrection.”
Susan W. Howard
June 13, 2006
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